BeenVerified can be used for any number of purposes and that’s why we make running multiple searches quick and affordable. We never want you to have to ask if it’s “worth it” to run a background check, especially if you have that funny feeling in the pit of your stomach.
But what is that “funny feeling” exactly, and why should you listen to it?
Whether it happens with a new neighbor, someone who shares the carpool responsibilities for your kids or a new romantic interest, that funny feeling is trying to tell you something and you should listen to it.
The funny feeling is called intuition.
Numerous studies have validated the scientific grounding behind the use of intuition. On its most basic level, as Kelly Turner notes in a recent Psychology Today article, intuition works because it “operates from the part of our brain that developed at a time when hidden dangers could jump out at us at any moment – such as a tiger hiding behind bushes.” That is why you often subconsciously know the correct answer—or that the person you are dealing with may be hiding something—long before the actual facts appear.
Intuition can be triggered by any number of scenarios and is not foolproof. It can be less reliable when you are in unfamiliar environments. In situations where your intuition may be less reliable you should take an analytical approach, like the method described here in a Lifehacker article on how to tell when someone’s lying.
When you encounter someone who sets off that funny feeling, don’t ignore it. We have been conditioned as a society to rely solely on the rational, yet your intuition has an important role to play in keeping you out of trouble.
As Albert Einstein said, “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.”
When was the last time your intuition helped you in making a decision?